Hi there, if you want to implement the Neumann boundary condition
$$\int \nabla u \cdot n d S = 0,$$
this would be reflected in the choice of the linear form $L$ on the LHS of the variational problem, see here.
The other choice is a bit tough, because it can't be absorbed in the definition of the linear form $L$. However, when the integral vanishes, I think you have a PDE that you can solve on its own, maybe analytically: $n \cdot \nabla u = -u$, e.g. in the simple case where the normal vector $n$ points in the direction of the coordinate axis, you have the problem $\sum_{i} \partial_{x_{i}} u = -u$. So I think that maybe this is not a boundary condition, but a proper PDE problem on its own.