Hi, have a look here and here for questions regarding Schroedinger eq. With bilinear form
a = inner(m*grad(F), grad(v))*dx + inner(V*F, v)*dx
where F and v are TrialFunction and TestFunction from eg. CG1 function space both
your conditions are satisfied. The first one is satisfied strongly by the choice of function space, while the other one is satisfied weakly by neglecting the jump term
$ \text{jump}(m \frac{dF}{dx})\text{avg}(v)ds$ on the facets.